You've found the perfect wedding invitations. But how do you write the addresses correctly for all the different living situations nowadays when there's only so much room on the envelope? Here's a list of the etiquette conventions for everyone on your list.
| Who it is | How to address the envelope |
| Unmarried woman | Miss/Ms. Jane Smith |
| Divorced woman who uses her married name | Mrs./Ms. Jane Rogers |
| Divorced woman who uses her maiden name | Miss/Ms. Jane Brumley |
| Unmarried man | Mr. John Doe |
| Unmarried couple who are living together | Miss/Ms. Jane Doe and Mr. John Smith (in alphabetical order) |
| Married couple with different last names | Ms. Jane Smith and Mr. John Doe |
| Married couple with same last name | Mr. and Mrs. John Doe |
| Widow | Mrs. John Doe |
| Unmarried woman with military title | Colonel Jane Smith, U.S. Navy |
| Unmarried man with military title | Colonel John Doe, U.S. Navy |
| Married couple with military title for man | Colonel and Mrs. John Doe |
| Married couple with military title for woman | Lieutenant Amy Fine, U.S. Army and Mr. Mark Fine |
| Clergy | The Reverend Robert Jordan or Rabbi Ben Steinman |
| Medical Doctor, unmarried or married man | Doctor James Rivers |
| Medical Doctor, unmarried or married woman | Doctor Lisa Merritt |
| Married couple, both doctors | Doctors Jason and Emily Thompson |
| Doctor (PhD) | Dr. Bronson Demmerling |
| Married Judge with wife | The Honorable and Mrs. Patrick O'Malley |
| Married Judge with husband | The Honorable Jane Doe and Mr. John Doe |
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